Well, right now I’m in between. I’m in a huge dilemma between laying low and being social. I’ve been more on the social side for the past 5 years and life is finally caving in on me. So I need to grow up a little and control things. Plus, I’ve been in too many relationships that didn’t work already, I don’t like being this emotional wreck half the time. I’m already an emotional wreck with certain exes popping up out of no where trying to pick up where we left off. Which is not a good idea. 

The thing is, I get bored and a little lonely here and there. 
And what I look for is more of a companionship deal where I can just have a naturally good time. That’s all I look for lately. Sex is too easy to come by and it bothers me a little sometimes.

Well, I came out to myself when I was about 19 when my girlfriend ( I know right?) was cheating on me. I allowed it to happen just so I can catch her in the act. One of my guy friends got close to me and we had a romantic thing going on for a while. But as far as coming out to the world, I’m not fully out. It’s really none of anybody’s business. Someone once told me that I should disclose that I’m gay so that people know not to offend me with gay jokes. My whole take on it is, if you know you’re going to offend someone then you shouldn’t say it in the first place!

Well, I have weird taste in men. And being gay doesn’t mean you have to act like everyone else and go with the whole Fabulous-diva attitude to everything. Be proud of who you are. Be someone you want to be! Not what everyone else wants you to be!

As for your friends, my advice is to think about what you are doing. Coming out is a personal choice and it can stir up a lot of drama between you and your friends. It could be judgement day on who your real friends are. 

I’m not too sure on telling you how to come out. 
I guess just feel people out and tell them.
But you need a reason to tell them. I wouldn’t suggest going around parading and telling people you’re gay.